Monday, March 19, 2012

Not Counting the Days

March 19, 2012
Greetings from the Queen.  Steve did a fabulous job of blogging through the tough times and so now I can just give you the essentials as we move down the path to recovery.  It had been a busy week with the removal of more medical attachments and final assessments.  Andrew has begun to Skype friends and check email.  If you want to get in touch with him, you can send him a message and he will get back to you.  As you can imagine after a head injury, it doesn't take much to tire him out. It is kind of like our bellies in that if we eat a big meal the next thing that we do is rest and sleep so that we can digest; the brain works like that, too. In other words, after a big 'information meal' the brain needs time to digest the information and so it is time for a nap...lots of those daily. This is typical for this kind of injury even though Andrew continues to amaze us daily So if you Skype Andrew, turn off the video of your face in order to keep the brain meal small and then Andrew won't need such a big nap later. So far we are keeping conversations short but anything beats the heck out of having to talk to your mother all day. As for Facebook, that is the fast food of brain information and that will happen once the brain is 'Olympic-rower- fit' and able to afford the occasional cheeseburger and fries.

Andrew realizes there is still much work ahead but he is up to the challenge every day.  You know he is getting tired of all things medical when he laments the inability to do a 6k erg (rowing speak for hard horrible hard).

Andrew's big brother, Spencer, came by for a visit this weekend and that was a real treat. He will have to wait on Fraser to finish exams for his visit and until then it will be Skype. What a world of difference the technologies have made to bring family together right from Skype to blogging.

On a final note, Steve is being well-fed by friends and neighbours who know that feeding himself his own cooking might be dangerous. Thank you ever so much for that kindness. Steve says that life is taking on its order again and the freezer is getting full...so he will survive from now on. Thanks again!!!!

9 comments:

  1. Great post, Queen Marcie! Thank you so much for the fabulous update. It makes us all so happy to hear the amazing road-to-recovery reports. All our best to all of you Crowleys from all of us Walker Davii!

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  2. Thanks for the update Queen Marcie. It is nice to have the "brain bites" explained. Great to hear that Andrew is starting to connect with friends. Technology is amazing. And Steve is not starving on his own. Look after yourself, and keep on posting. You always have our love and support. Steve and Caroline

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  3. Dear Marcie, Thank you again for taking the time to post. So happy to hear that Spencer got to see Andrew. Hope exams end soon for Fraser so he can come give his brother a big hug! After following all of this, it is amazing to see how technology has allowed all to stay connected and informed. So much would have gotten lost in translation if all the info had to be passed along by phone. I may have to rethink my resistance to being on Facebook ! So happy that Andrew is slowly giving his brain a chance to heal. I'm sure it's frustrating at times, but it sounds like being able for him to connect with friends in small does is invaluable. What an incredible job you all are doing to support Andrew. He's one very lucky kid. Love to you all.
    xoxoxo Susie and Ron Laher and family

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  4. Andrew
    We are so thankful for your recovery and so glad to hear you are in a better place now. The healing has started and it will be a long one but will go by fast. I have spent the last 4 months in crutches and now a wheel chair thanks to tearing my Achilles heel. I can not believe how fast the time has gone now that I have only 4 weeks to go. So I do know how boring it can get and how much sleep we need but before long you will be up and rowing with your friends. Everyone here in laundry has been thinking about you daily and hoping your recovery will go by fast. Take care and remember you have lots of friends who care deeply for you. Love from all the laundry ladies at Brentwood

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  5. Thank you your Majesty! Andrew, you're one amazing kid. Keep it up!

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  6. We are still following Andrew's recovery from California. Thanks so much for this. ;o) Sandra de la Serna

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  7. Good to hear things are progressing smoothly! It is a long, tough road, but you are strong and determined!
    I send my love and hope you are all happy and well! (HUG)!!
    Bre Stuart

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  8. Andrew, no matter how much time passes, we still think about you every day!!! Love, Jill and Danny Davis (Natalie's parents)

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